Well – this was supposed to be a place just for me — but alas J liked the name too much to waiste it on private thoughts — so it is now public…and not for me:) It’s ok — we needed a place to post things we should remember and highlight about our children. This will be the place. For those of you who know us IRL – you get the name – Bob, Belle, Bean & Puppy… we (E and J) are a loving couple – married for almost 9 years – with 4 beautiful healthy children who come with each of their own challenges. This is our story….